Every Feb. 14, Valentine’s Day arrives with its familiar symbols of love: cards, red roses and heart-shaped candy filling store aisles. For some, Valentine’s Day can feel awkward or even lonely for those who are not in romantic relationships. Yet despite this criticism, the holiday remains valuable. At its core, Valentine’s Day is not just about couples; it is about love in all forms.
While the media often highlights romance as the centerpiece of Valentine’s Day, many people celebrate it differently. Some students use the day to exchange small gifts with friends. Others spend it with family, sharing dinner or writing notes. In recent years, celebrations such as “Galentine’s Day” have gained popularity, emphasizing friendship and general appreciation rather than romantic partnerships.
Historically, Valentine’s Day did not begin as a commercial holiday centered on couples. Its origins trace back to ancient Roman traditions and later became associated with expressions of affection. Over time, the meaning of the holiday evolved. Today, it reflects human connection and appreciation.
At Gabrielino High School, students have mixed feelings about the holiday. Some see it as overcommercialized, while others appreciate the opportunity to show gratitude. “It is not just about having a boyfriend or girlfriend,” Vanessa Moreno, senior, said. “It can be a reminder to tell people you care about them.” That reminder can matter more than the candy or flowers themselves.
In a time when social pressures and comparison are common, Valentine’s Day can also be reframed as a day of self-love. Taking time to appreciate oneself can be just as meaningful as a romantic dinner.
Ultimately, Valentine’s Day still holds value because it invites people to pause and express appreciation. Love does not exist only in relationships; it exists in friendships, in family bonds and within oneself.
Rather than dismissing the holiday, it is worth redefining it. In a world that often moves quickly, any day that encourages people to pause and express care and gratitude deserves a place on the calendar.
